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How are we supposed to react to insults, mockings, provocations from haters all over in the game

Discussion in 'General Discussion' started by CDFA, May 16, 2015.

  1. CDFA
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    My honest answer to "How are we supposed to react" is - we dont react. We do not let the actions of others, no matter how agreeable or disagreeable we find them, affect our lives.

    Take this for example. I like to think I'm a polite person out in public, I, all the time hold the door open for ladies or even men. Sometimes people thank me, a lot of times they do not. The people that do not thank me, I dont stop them and start arguing with them that they should have thanked me for holding a door for them. You know why I dont do that? Because I dont let it affect how I live my life, or how I act. I'm still going to hold open the door, because it's the nice thing to do for others. I may think in my mind "wow that was rude" - but really, who cares? It will not(and I would never let it) affect my life not even for one second.

    Life is too short guys, dont spend time on the haters or those that are simply not interested.

    Same with an apology. I dont expect anybody to accept any apology I ever give. I'm not apologizing to hear their acceptance, I am apologizing because I think I was in the wrong, and I am making sure the other person knows I'm sorry. They dont have to accept, you know why? Because, it doesnt affect my life. I am apologizing, because its the right thing to do. I'm not looking for an "I accept". Its nice to hear that - but that's not why I am apologizing.

    Everyone is different guys. Think of the crazy group ISIS, or the radical Muslims of the world that are going around chopping heads off of people. These people think they are right, and just, in what they're doing - slaughtering thousands of innocent people - why? Because those other people do not believe in what they believe and act like they should act. I'm in Israel, I dont hate Muslims people, because there are a ton of really good Muslims. I that the radicals, the ones who think I should act a certain way, believe a certain way, and live my life the way they see fit.

    So, my answer to you guys is, go to the bathroom and take a look at yourselves in the mirror. Remember that you are a human being who deserves much more than this, and get yourselves out there, dont be offended by the haters, learn to move on instead of being stuck in the past, make some good friends and spend your time with them - and live a happy life. :)
     
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    A lot more people need to realise this.
     
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    Tl;dr version: Stop being a little bitch.
     
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    Well said. But the main point people need to notice in this block of text for me is...

    Life is too short.
     
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    i think we should still react, but react still in a way that doesn't give them the satisfaction they want. i dont like the approach of letting it go because "life is too short". i think life is too short to take this kind of crap from anyone, and if you can just type @gm and take care of it, do it. we as a community need to put our foot(feet?) down and show that harassment and other insults will not be tolerated. its even in the ToS that there is a no tolerance rule for this type of behavior.

    i like the message youre trying to send, i really do. life IS too short to let this bring you down. but we should still put an end to what we can, when we can.
     
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    Preaching brutha preaaaach
     
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    Dis gui is meh new fernd. I lyk em.

    No seriously though, are you a philosopher or something? I think about crap like this all the time. I may not post like I have an ounce of brain power in my head but you and I would talk about stuff like this for hours on end.
     
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    "Hahahahahahahaha How The Fuck Is Cyber Bullying Real Hahahaha Nigga Just Walk Away From The Screen Like Nigga Close Your Eyes Haha" - Tyler the Creator.
     
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    I prefer saying "U WOT M8!?!?!" Finished off with insults about their mother or how ill hurt them physically. My personal ethos is if you hurt me ill show you by making you hurt more. Tried and tested method approved by the BIGGEST LAD on the server!
     
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    i have a bad habit of intentionally escalating the situation
    friends, if you want to have a good time, do what i do
    if you want to be smart, do the opposite of what i do
     
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    Yeah man, that really made sense, thanks.

    ...

    :)
     

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