New players and meso asking.

So there's something that has been kind of bothering me and other players in game and that thing is meso begging. There's nothing wrong with asking for help. We all know the struggle for new players, we've all been there. I first joined the server around May 2017 and it was my first time playing after around 8 years. I had to switch my main from a lvl 103 hermit to my current main which is a Bishop lvl 164. I gained everything by myself. AGAIN, I don't see anything wrong with asking for help. Some prefer the easy way, and some prefer the harder way. BOTH ARE COMPLETELY FINE! It becomes an issue when you force higher lvl players to "help" you. Example: spamming trade requests and whispers, calling us names for not helping you (happened to me too many times) and just simply having hard time to accept the fact that not every higher lvl player have a lot of mesos, nor ready to give some of them away. We save mesos for skill books that are very expensive, pots, gear and etc... I'm not trying to come as a rude or mean person, but when im trying my best to save mesos for gen30 after failing my first book, it's really annoying to be called out names just simply for saying no to giving away my mesos to someone new. Happy mapling~